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THE WOODRIDGE DIVORCE ATTORNEYS AT WOLFE & STEC, LTD. OFFER FREE CONSULTATIONS TO DISCUSS YOUR CASE AND HELP YOU FIND THE PATH TO THE BEST POSSIBLE OUTCOME IN DIVORCE AND RELATED FAMILY LAW ISSUES.

Divorce is something that is never easy. It can be devastating for the couple, their children, and other family members. It is one of life’s greatest sources of stress, but is sometimes the only way forward. In fact, almost 50 percent of marriages in the United States wind up in divorce court. At this turbulent time, when you are likely to be worried about your future, your finances, and the impact on your kids, you need a good divorce attorney to take you through the process.

As trial lawyers, we know the importance of thorough preparation and aggressive representation. As human beings with families ourselves, we understand that divorce is not simply about dividing assets and property. We represent our clients with a deep sensitivity to the emotional impact divorce has on all parties affected. Call Wolfe & Stec today at 630-305-0222 for your no-cost consultation. Our Woodridge divorce attorney is here for you and will walk you through the process and stand by your side.

Why You Need a Woodridge Divorce Attorney

You and your soon-to-be-ex-spouse are on relatively good terms. You both just want a speedy and fair resolution and then be able to move on with your lives. There’s no need to hire a lawyer, right? Wrong.

Trying to handle a divorce yourself could be a costly mistake. Even if you and your spouse agree and the divorce is friendly, this may change without warning as unexpected situations arise. Children have issues; spouses become jealous or spiteful over new relationships; or one may start perceiving that the other is coming out ahead financially. Having an attorney can protect your rights when a once-cooperative spouse turns sour. Remember, once your divorce is final, mistakes are almost impossible to undo; and not only can they cost you a significant amount of money, but you and your children can suffer effects that last a lifetime. It is wise to have an attorney involved to make sure you get it right the first time.

Here are some reasons to hire a Woodridge divorce attorney:

• The divorce process is complex, and laws constantly change — such as the 2016 major revisions to the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act. Your attorney can help you through the steps and processes and ensure that you understand the changes.
• Issues come up with custody and visitation, and the future of your children is at stake.
• Your attorney can help make sure marital property is divided fairly and equitably.
• If you and your spouse can’t negotiate a settlement, you may have to go to trial, where an attorney’s assistance is essential.

What Differentiates a Great Divorce Lawyer?

You can go online and find countless divorce attorneys advertising their services. But hiring a lawyer with the right experience and who cares for their clients can make an enormous difference in how smoothly and quickly the process goes and the ultimate outcome. You can’t afford to waste your time with a bad or even so-so attorney.

Here are some things you should look for in selecting an excellent attorney:

A good divorce attorney …

• Is someone you can relate to, who supports your basic philosophy toward divorce, inspires trust and makes you feel comfortable.
• Is knowledgeable, acts according to the professional ethics of the industry, treats you with the respect and attention you deserve, and focuses on your needs.
• Communicates well and knows how to negotiate, has a good reputation in and is familiar with the judges and courts in your area.
• Is supportive — recognizes the importance of your children and their needs, listens to what you want, understands your individual needs, provides good advice and proceeds according to the best interests of you and your family.
• Is affordable and willing to discuss fee structures up front and come up with a plan that works for you.

When to Hire a Divorce Attorney

The short answer: right away. Knowing when to hire a divorce lawyer can make the difference between an amicable split and a drawn-out battle, and a difference in your final settlement. It makes sense to contact an attorney immediately, even if you are just thinking of divorce, and certainly if you have been surprised by divorce papers from your spouse.

Our attorneys and staff give you the emotional support you need right from the beginning, evaluate the specifics of your situation, and proceed in the best way to protect your assets and legal rights. Getting on the right path from the start will help prevent mistakes and ensure that the outcome of your divorce is as favorable as possible.

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What Should I Do Before Filing for Divorce?

Preplanning before filling for divorce allows you to protect what you can before the courts get involved. Things you should do include:

1) Plan for post-divorce life. Think about how you are going to live your life after the divorce is filed and have an idea what you will need to survive financially. Will you be able to support yourself and your children, keep your house and furniture, get your own health and other insurance, and get your own credit cards?

2) Evaluate your assets. Gather information and paperwork about your finances and possessions, including your home, investment property, financial accounts, and valuables.

3) Evaluate debts. Know what you and your spouse owe in terms of credit card and business debts, mortgages and loans, and any judgments against you. Order a free credit report from one or more of the major agencies (Equifax, Transunion, or Experion).

4) Get a financial consultant. Consider hiring a financial consultant or lawyer to do a financial discovery if you have a high asset divorce.

5) Keep your non-marital property separate. Marital property consists of all assets you or your spouse acquired during the marriage and before your divorce judgment, and this is the property that will be divided by the courts. It also includes non-marital property that has been transferred into co-ownership and commingled.

What Should I Do Before Telling My Spouse?

Telling your spouse you want a divorce is bound to be difficult, so make sure divorce is really what you want. If you are, prepare ahead of time and consider working with a counselor to help you sort through your feelings. Consult with an attorney to make sure all is in order, do thorough preplanning, and gather all your paperwork before you tell your partner anything. Then:

• Pick a good time and place so you can speak without interruptions and have plenty of time to talk.
• Be direct, but firm, and as respectful and kind as possible. Be aware that you may encounter resistance, anger, and emotional escalation.
• Don’t negotiate about dividing property, child support, alimony and/or your parenting plan and timesharing arrangements without guidance from the right professional.

Special Situations in Divorce

Not every divorce looks the same. Some cases require special handling, due to finances, family dynamics, or other unique situations. Our lawyers bring the experience necessary to expertly represent their clients even in the most challenging divorces.

High-Asset Divorce

The more assets involved, the more you have to risk if your divorce is not handled properly. Our attorneys handle cases for individuals with high net worth and those involving family-owned businesses.  We strive to protect your pre-marital, family, and business assets, and to make sure the distribution of marital assets is equitable and fair.

High-Conflict Divorce

A normal divorce is bad enough, but when it degenerates into a high-conflict one, you need a skilled attorney on your side.  Spouses undergoing high-conflict divorce often clash, fight, and show hostility in almost every situation.  They frequently take each other to court and may take out restraining or no-contact orders and accuse their partner of domestic violence, physical abuse or sexual abuse.

Major areas for high conflict include:

• Money – After a divorce, money has to support two households, so divorcing partners often feel there is never enough and that they are not getting their fair share.
• Children – Children feel as if they are being pulled in two directions when parents are in a high-conflict divorce.
• Possessions – Who gets the house and the car are big ones, but spouses may fight about every little item despite the consequences in time, stress, and cost.
• New relationships – When a spouse begins dating, jealousy raises its ugly head.
• Revenge – High-conflict divorcing spouses often seek revenge and go to great lengths to get even, including frequent court actions and involvement of third-party investigators.

Military Divorce

An Illinois military divorce involves different laws than a civilian one, and we have the expertise to handle divorce for both service members and their spouses. Under the Soldiers and Sailors Civil Relief Act, 50 UCS section 521, there are military rules and regulations for serving papers on a soldier, and laws for maintenance, child and spousal support, and division of a military pension. Active duty spouses have legal protection to allow them to “devote their entire energy to the defense needs of the Nation,” through 60 days post active duty, so there are times it is necessary to postpone the filing of your divorce papers.

The attorneys at Wolfe & Stec understand the variables that make every divorce a unique situation. To discuss the particulars of your case, call our Woodridge office today.

Keys to Hiring a Woodridge Divorce Attorney

When hiring a divorce attorney, it makes sense to start by asking for recommendations from friends and family members who have gone through the process. Another good source is doing research online and examining the websites of attorneys who handle your type of divorce situation. It may be helpful to consult a local finding service that provides quality-assured lawyer directories and can connect you to an experienced lawyer in your area.

Once you have come up with several choices, take advantage of the free consultations offered and interview these attorneys to see whether you feel comfortable with them. Have questions ready to ask so you can determine whether the attorney has the experience, objectivity, and knowledge to represent you during the divorce proceedings, shares your divorce philosophies, is affordable, and is a good fit for you. We believe you will find positive answers to these questions when you contact Wolfe & Stec.

Questions to Ask Your Divorce Attorney

When you meet with one of the attorneys at Wolfe & Stec, feel free to bring up any concerns and questions you may have about the divorce process and what to expect. These may include:

• your eligibility for divorce
• where and how to file and what forms are necessary
• what fees and costs are involved
• our experience with custody and visitation cases, child support and setting up a parenting plan if you have children
• our experience with marital support, division of property, and high asset cases
• whether mediation or collaboration is available and appropriate in your situation
• whether an attorney will handle most of your divorce or there will be an assistant who will be dealing with your case
• what is involved in the divorce process and how long it is likely to last
• our depth of experience with divorce litigation, and how many cases have been tried.

It’s Time to Initiate Divorce Proceedings. Now What?

You’ve made the difficult decision to divorce, you’ve done your research, and you’ve hired a lawyer to represent your interests. Now is the time to get the ball rolling. Here is what to expect.

WHERE TO FILE FOR DIVORCE

In Illinois, you may file for divorce in the Circuit Court in the county where either spouse lives.

THE DIVORCE PROCESS

To file for divorce in Illinois, the parties need to reside in the state for at least 90 days prior to the date of filing. The divorce process begins with the filing of a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage. The filing party is the “Petitioner” and the responding party is referred to as the “Respondent.”

The divorce process can be divided into three phases:

The Temporary Relief Phase. The Respondent is served with a Summons and Petition for Dissolution, typically by the sheriff or a professional service, which provides temporary relief while the Petition or Dissolution remains pending. The spouse is given 30 days to respond or a judge will typically set a date for both spouses to appear in court.

Temporary Relief may include:

• Temporary order of Child Support
• Temporary order of Maintenance (if the party is not self-supporting)
• Temporary Restraining Order (TRO)
• Temporary Attorney Fees.
• The Discovery Phase. The parties exchange documents for a full disclosure of all assets. Each party must disclose a Financial Affidavit, which includes income, expenses, assets, debts, and other financial-related items. Commonly used methods for discovering information are Marital Interrogatories (a list of written questions requiring the responding party to make written responses) and a Request to Produce Documents (requiring copies of the documents requested).
• The Resolution Phase. The case settles and a Judgment for Dissolution and Marital Settlement Agreement is entered. Illinois is an “equitable distribution” state, meaning the marital property is divided in an equitable manner, but not necessarily equally. If the parties cannot reach a settlement on the issues, the case goes to trial, where the court will determine issues such as the property award and child and spousal support.

How Long Does a Divorce Take?

There is no simple answer to this. The time a divorce takes depends on the issues involved. If the divorce is simple and uncontested, it can take as little as two months. If it is contested and the spouses are fighting over issues such as property division, child support and custody, and spousal maintenance, divorces can, in some cases, take several years.

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Factors to Consider During a Divorce

There is much to consider when undergoing a divorce, as the rest of your life is at stake. Illinois is an equitable distribution state. This means marital property and debts need not be divided 50/50, but according to what the courts decide is “equitable.” The court’s property division decision is guided by twelve factors set out in the law, and it does not consider “marital misconduct” in dividing the property and debts. The factors include:

• Each party’s contribution to the marriage
• Dissipation of assets by each party
• Value of property assigned to each spouse
• The length of the marriage
• The relevant economic circumstances and timing
• Prior marriages
• Pre- and post-nuptial agreements
• Situational status
• Custody of children — how to allocate parental responsibilities and time
• Spousal maintenance
• Future income
• Tax consequences of the property distribution.

How to Consider Children in the Divorce

Divorce is a major life-changer for children, who are bound to be affected emotionally and have fears and insecurities about their future. Will they get to see both their parents; will they have to leave their home, school and friends; will there be enough money for them to meet their needs?

In making your plan, you should include all elements that are essential to cover your children’s physical, emotional and social needs, plus the needs and considerations of both parents.  Basic plan essentials should include:

• Parenting time schedule.  Lay out the time your children will spend with each parent. Include their daily living schedules, holidays, and vacation time.
• Parental Responsibility.  State which parent will have most of the decision-making responsibilities in the major life areas, including education, medical and health situations, extra-curricular activities, and religion.
• Parenting guidelines.  Come up with rules that both parents agree to follow as they raise their children.
• Traveling.  Designate how much vacation time each parent has and include provisions about traveling and relocating if parents move a long distance apart.
• Financial information.  Include financial information about child support, claiming children as a dependent for taxes, and handling reimbursement for extra expenses.
• Revising the plan.  Lay out how both parents will revise the plan if it becomes necessary or desirable, and a way to resolve disagreements about revisions to the plan.

We Focus On The Needs of Each Client

While every client and family dynamic is different, there are a few issues that tend to be more relevant to men, to women, and to same-sex couples. We have the skills and experience to represent all of our clients with a tailored and personal approach.

Representing Men

Men have specific issues in divorce and should hire a Woodridge divorce attorney who has experience with and understands these issues, including:

• Custody and visitation. Traditionally, divorce courts were biased toward the mother in custody proceedings, and the common arrangement was for the mother to have residential custody and the father to have visitation, often every other weekend and one night during the week.  In recent years, courts have become more gender-neutral and now focus on the best interests of the child. As a result, more men can get shared custody arrangements, known as “parental time and responsibilities.”
• Spousal support. Since men are often the higher wage-earners, they are more often affected by the new Republican tax law, which eliminates the tax break for alimony payments that are finalized or modified after Dec. 31, 2018. The old system allowed people paying alimony to deduct the payments from their income before calculating taxes. The new system requires payment of taxes on all income, including that which is spent on alimony.

Representing Women

While our society has made strides toward gender equality, wives still do the bulk of the housework and childcare, and many hold a job as well. Since women often earn less and many have stayed home to raise children or have supported their husband’s career, they are often worse off financially when on their own.

While the courts are striving to be more gender neutral, your attorney should be familiar with the laws and understand the unique issues affecting women and their children in the areas of property division, child custody and support, and spousal maintenance. For example, under the tax law that goes into effect January 1, 2019, the spouse receiving alimony will receive it tax free, the same as money paid for child support.  However, since the alimony recipient earns less than the paying spouse, the paying spouse hit by increased taxes will try to negotiate lower payments, so alimony recipients may wind up losing 10% to 15% of what they would get under the old law.  Since usually women earn less than their spouses, the new law will hurt them – and their children — the most.

Representing Same-Sex Couples

Same-sex marriages or civil unions terminate the same way as a traditional marriage, with the divorce governed by the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act. Divorcing same-sex couples need to deal with the usual issues of property division, spousal maintenance, child custody and child support.

Alternate Approaches

There are several alternatives to traditional litigation that are available to those considering divorce. These include:

• Mediation.  In some cases, couples may work out an agreement through a process called mediation. It is always better for divorcing partners to hammer out differences together rather than to submit to the final verdict of a family court judge. Mediation offers a chance for both spouses to resolve issues with the help of a neutral third party under conditions that are designed to minimize the possibility of conflict.

  There are variations to the process of divorce mediation in Illinois, including the possibility of mediation through a phone conference.

  TO ENSURE THAT COUPLES SPEAK FREELY, NOTHING IS SUBMITTED TO THE COURT UNTIL THERE IS A FINAL WRITTEN AGREEMENT.

  Couples may decide to undergo mediation before filing a joint petition for divorce or at any time before their court date.

• Collaborative divorce. In a collaborative divorce, both parties agree to resolve all issues in a respectful, open and honest manner, and to focus on constructive problem-solving outside of the court system. Both spouses have their own attorneys, who are trained in the collaborative process. The attorneys make sure their clients are aware of their legal rights and obligations relating to property, alimony, and children, and they seek a satisfactory resolution for everyone concerned.
   
  Spouses and their attorneys sign a contract called a Participation Agreement, stating their commitment to resolving issues according to collaborative principals and guidelines. Settlement is reached through a series of meetings where the couple is guided through the process by their attorneys in a structured, non-adversarial way. Once everyone agrees, documents are prepared and presented to the judge for approval and entry of judgment. Collaborative attorneys may not continue to represent their clients if the process breaks down and goes to litigation.

• Annulment and void marriages. Annulment means the marriage was never regarded as legally valid in the first place.  Under Illinois law, an annulment is a “declaration of invalidity of marriage,” an order that revokes recognition by the state.  Once an annulment is granted, it is as if the marriage never really existed. Annulments are hard to get, as they have strict requirements and time limits and must have specific grounds such as mental disability, being forced into marriage, bigamy or incest, or hiding one’s inability to have sexual intercourse.

Contact Us For Help With Divorce Issues

Illinois divorce law is complicated and changing, and the facts and circumstances of each case are different, so it makes sense to seek legal counsel to represent your interests. The skilled DuPage County divorce lawyers at Wolfe & Stec, Ltd., can advise and guide you through every step in the process.

For your initial consultation with an experienced and compassionate Woodridge divorce lawyer, contact us online or call 630-305-0222. We handle cases throughout Illinois.

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